I HAD written a very long, wordy post... I erased it in favor of LESS. We are Simplifying our life style; and finding that LESS is, indeed more. Less stuff. Less mess. Less crazy running around due to a less crazy schedule. And finally Less words...
Above is my son's room, mid-simplifying-sort; as I ditched Anything: broken, age inappropriate, or limiting to the imagination. Check out how many books are on that book shelf!
Boxes and boxes went to the second hand store, 2 big garbage bags went to the trash. Two more boxes of things I thought he might notice were missing, went into storage.
What you see above, is a tub of dress-ups, and a basket of marbles and marble run supplies. Baskets covered with a cloth.
His shelf holds a basket of musical instruments, a basket of cars, and a handful of his favorite books.
The closet holds a tub of lego and pirate ship set.
***Neat, AND easy to keep it that way.***
This whole Simplifying thing is Waldorf inspired.
I am amazed and grateful for coming across these resources at exactly the right time for us.
My Daughter got a Simplified version of her room that allowed her to focus on what she loves. Surrounded by dance costumes, her photography, her violin and books...
.........And her new Fish.
For years we have been riding the swinging pendulum of Radical Un-schooling; and the pendulum was always, ALWAYS swinging. I was beginning to feel kinda dizzy!
It was beginning to feel like Someone's needs were always being left unmet; and often my husband and I felt absolutely exhausted.
There's no other word for it. I took this as a sign we needed a change.
One of the greatest discoveries about LESS is that it has opened up MORE space for LEARNING!
Letting go of the "box" of the Unschooling label, has opened me up to using some Waldorf curriculum; which by the way, is SO BEAUTIFUL!
It is so honoring of Childhood,
Nature and Imagination!
It is astonishing to me to witness my children SO engaged in their learning! Every game, every story, every movement, every art project! (*Still very child-led*)
Above he is learning about pulley systems...
I remember last year, when my son's sole passion was video games, and his mood was miserable. The kind of miserable that comes from not feeling satisfied, valuable, or successful. He would lament that he had no gifts, and that he wasn't good at anything. It broke my heart, as I scrambled around, in vain, trying to find various "things" for him to try.
*This year he is THRIVING!* Actually, we all are :)*
I felt so resistant to; routine, curriculum, sharing the daily responsibilities, limiting screen usage; were ALL things that have benefited our family more than I could have imagined!
Simplifying has felt like a Fresh Start.
So it would seem Simplifying has OPENED the space for me to learn some great lessons too!
*Google Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne if your curious to know more.